Sex Therapist
New York & Los Angeles
“In love there are two things—bodies and words.”
Sex Therapy for Individuals and Couples
Sex and intimacy are deeply personal—and often deeply misunderstood. Whether you’re exploring these topics for the first time or returning after years of avoidance, there’s no wrong time to begin this process. I offer sex therapy for individuals and couples across all stages of life and relationships—without shame, without stigma, and without the labels that get in the way of real healing.
Through a transparent and collaborative model, I create a warm, nonjudgmental space where you can examine your sexual self. Whether you're struggling with desire, performance, communication, or identity, therapy is a space to explore, understand, and grow.
No partner? No problem. You don’t need to be in a relationship to begin the journey toward sexual confidence and fulfillment.
What we can work on
My work includes (but isn’t limited to) the following concerns:
Desire discrepancy
Performance anxiety
Low libido
Orgasm or arousal difficulties
Painful sex (dyspareunia, vaginismus, vulvodynia)
Erectile dysfunction
Premature ejaculation
Asexuality
Sexless marriage or relationship
LGBTQIA+ sexual identity and expression
Porn overuse
Postpartum sexual changes
Family planning and sex
Navigating hormonal changes
I also specialize in working with tech and high-performance professionals who may be navigating stress, burnout, or disconnection that impacts their intimate lives.
My Approach
I don’t believe in labeling people as “broken.” Instead, we’ll explore what’s happened to you—not what’s wrong with you. Labels like "sexual dysfunction" can feel pathologizing. I reject shame-based models of care in favor of an approach rooted in curiosity, clarity, and care.
You can expect:
Direct, efficient conversation that prioritizes your goals
Clear insight into patterns, history, and relational dynamics
Homework and behavior-based strategies when appropriate
An inclusive, body-positive, and LGBTQIA+ affirming space
Coordination with medical or pelvic floor specialists when needed
Theoretical Orientations
Relational Therapy
Sexual Narrative Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Mindfulness-Based Approaches
Behavioral Therapy
Attachment Theory
How It Works
Whether solo or partnered, I recommend a minimum of weekly 50-minute sessions. Your initial intake session may run slightly longer. While some clients feel a shift after just a few sessions, deeper transformation often occurs over time as we build trust, gain insight, and implement change.
Sessions are available in-person in NYC, virtually across NY & CA, and occasionally in LA.
Common Client Concerns
Clients often come to me asking:
“Will I ever feel normal again?”
“Can we get married if our sex life isn’t ‘fixed’?”
“Is there something wrong with me?”
“How do we reconnect after having a baby?”
“Is it too late to want more from intimacy?”
If you’re asking similar questions, know that you're not alone—and that it’s possible to reconnect with yourself and your partner(s).
Why Work With Me?
I bring a structured, compassionate, and results-driven approach to sex therapy. I’ve trained under Suzanne Iasenza, one of the field’s leading experts, and I regularly integrate cutting-edge research and clinical frameworks into my work. But more importantly, I bring warmth, clarity, and a commitment to helping you move forward.
“Come in, relax, and let’s work on your issues together. You deserve to be happy—and happiness deserves your attention.”
Resources & Thought Leaders I Recommend
Web Resources:
The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT)
The Pelvic Pain Society
Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR)
Podcasts:
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Ready to begin? You don’t need to have all the answers—you just need a safe space to explore them.